I am a huge fan of Grey’s Anatomy….just love the show. My friends point out the medical misses, but I love the show for its strong women characters who are smart, competitive, and just cool.

One episode which made me laugh was when the new heart surgeon Maggie tells the younger intern that she needs to know when to “bring the thunder” because she’s young and pretty. Basically, how to stand up for yourself and make the argument.

This is when you’re going to lose it a little because you believe in your heart and soul you are right. When every cell is telling you that someone is making the wrong decision. You’re going to bring the thunder.

Now, you can’t bring the thunder all the time. But if you never bring the thunder, what does that say about you?