{"id":692,"date":"2015-01-25T12:11:35","date_gmt":"2015-01-25T12:11:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=692"},"modified":"2015-01-25T12:11:35","modified_gmt":"2015-01-25T12:11:35","slug":"13-be-a-true-team-player","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=692","title":{"rendered":"13. Be a true team player."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Out of all the lessons learned, I would put this one in my top 3.<\/p>\n<p>Being a team player is not about lip service. It&#8217;s about truly believing that the power of a team will be better than the single contributor.<\/p>\n<p>I have <strong>never, in my entire career<\/strong>, met someone who was so good that they did better than the team would do. So here&#8217;s some observations about what it takes to be a true team player, all learned when I played JV basketball in high school, which I loved. But was terrible at.<\/p>\n<p>1. <strong><em>You communicate quickly to help those in trouble<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This means you don&#8217;t just watch people go over a cliff if you think they&#8217;re headed the wrong way. It means you figure out a way to help them, to pull them aside, to guide them. On the court, that means you yell at your teammates &#8220;Heads up!&#8221; so they know what&#8217;s going on. You\u00a0are fast and loud, but for their best interest. Teammates don&#8217;t take it personally.<\/p>\n<p>2. <strong><em>You go after a loose ball, even if it&#8217;s not your job<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One of the rules of basketball: <em>you go after the ball<\/em>. If it breaks loose, is headed out of bounds, you go after it if you&#8217;re the closest to it. You don&#8217;t argue whether or not it&#8217;s your job. When you&#8217;re on a team, if you see a ball that needs to be picked up, do it. You can argue position\u00a0later.<\/p>\n<p>3. <strong><em>You work with each other to get better, but you don&#8217;t ignore your skills either<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For basketball, that&#8217;s practice every day for hours. Individual training and team play practice. And scrimmages against each other. And of course, the games.<\/p>\n<p>At work, it comes in the form of staff meetings, individual development plans, individual and team goals, and execution. Every day you&#8217;re going out on the court. How did you play today? How did your team do? You can&#8217;t win as an individual if your team loses. And your team can win, but not be helped by you.<\/p>\n<p>4. <strong><em>You have coaches, you have captains, you have stars.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Their job is to win, and do what&#8217;s best for the team. You don&#8217;t get to\u00a0pick if you want to be the coach, captain or star. The coach is the one held accountable for how\u00a0the team does. \u00a0The captain is <em>elected<\/em> by the team. And you&#8217;re a star if you are clearly the go-to person.\u00a0 You&#8217;re not always going to like how this plays out, but it is what it is.\u00a0 A lot of people want to be stars&#8230;but are you the go-to person? And don&#8217;t resent the stars: support them, and be glad for the lift they give the team. If you want to be a captain&#8230;.did the team elect you? If you&#8217;re a coach, do you hold yourself accountable for the team&#8217;s performance, or do you look for excuses?<\/p>\n<p>5. <strong><em>The team is bigger than just the players on the court.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Teams are big for a reason. When someone gets hurt or tired, the second string gets tapped and has to perform. Everyone matters. Don&#8217;t make the mistake of defining your team too narrowly (&#8220;My team is just who reports to me&#8221;). The more you exhibit teamwork across the biggest,<strong><em> most inclusive\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>definition of team, the more successful you&#8217;ll be.<\/p>\n<p>When you win, you savor the moment for a few hours. But you&#8217;re already onto the next game, the next challenge. Nothing promises that you&#8217;ll do it again next time. Just like work.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Out of all the lessons learned, I would put this one in my top 3. Being a team player is not about lip service. It&#8217;s about truly believing that the power of a team will be better than the single contributor. 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