{"id":609,"date":"2014-12-22T07:19:25","date_gmt":"2014-12-22T07:19:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=609"},"modified":"2014-12-27T14:25:44","modified_gmt":"2014-12-27T14:25:44","slug":"its-ok-not-to-know-what-you-want-to-be-when-you-grow-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=609","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s OK not to know what you want to be when you grow up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I can&#8217;t tell you how many people are relieved when I tell them this.<\/p>\n<p>The impression I get is that people think senior people always knew what they wanted and how they were going to get there. That there was a <strong>plan. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Speaking for myself, there was <strong>NEVER<\/strong> a plan. I was a history major undergrad, and I thought I was going to be a lawyer. But I ended up working in banking, and decided to stay in financial services. I have held positions in marketing, operations, pricing, new product development, reengineering. I&#8217;ve worked in credit cards, private banking, corporate banking, retail brokerage, and high net worth asset management.<\/p>\n<p>My point is that clearly I didn&#8217;t have a plan. But I did have\u00a0two requirements: that my next job was always going to be challenging in some way because there were new things to learn, but I would also be able to contribute to the role <em>immediately<\/em> because of what I already knew.\u00a0 That way, I wasn&#8217;t walking into a job where<em> everything<\/em> was new.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re starting out in your career, it&#8217;s perfectly ok not to know what you want to be. Here&#8217;s the analogy I gave to someone recently:<\/p>\n<p>Imagine a huge buffet with 300 different dishes. 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