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We will communicate to those impacted people as soon as possible, and we appreciate your support while this is going on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Be honest about what you know will happen, what may happen, what won&#8217;t happen. That way you&#8217;re always telling the truth, but you&#8217;re not waiting until you know all the facts before communicating. Remember, in the absence of information, people will make up their own version of the truth to fill in the gap. Make sure you involve human resources and legal if the situation needs it. I find HR to be a great group to run ideas by.<\/p>\n<p>4. <strong>What you say means nothing if your behavior doesn&#8217;t support it<\/strong>. You can&#8217;t say you care about people if your behavior suggests the contrary. People look for the<strong> symbols<\/strong> that indicate the message is real. 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