{"id":2098,"date":"2017-04-04T18:23:13","date_gmt":"2017-04-04T18:23:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=2098"},"modified":"2017-04-04T18:23:13","modified_gmt":"2017-04-04T18:23:13","slug":"warning-signs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=2098","title":{"rendered":"Warning Signs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When people are in the process of vetting a new role, sometimes it gets worse, not better as the process goes on. Yes, it&#8217;s great when you only get more and more excited about the new job. But sometimes, you start getting warning signals&#8230;.which conflict with the appeal of a higher salary, promises, and the &#8220;new shiny&#8221; thing high. Here are some warning signs you should pay attention to:<!--more-->1. You feel worse&#8230;not better the more people you meet and the further down the process it goes. 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