{"id":2026,"date":"2017-02-22T15:50:09","date_gmt":"2017-02-22T15:50:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=2026"},"modified":"2017-02-23T14:31:15","modified_gmt":"2017-02-23T14:31:15","slug":"when-someone-wants-to-hire-you-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=2026","title":{"rendered":"When Someone Wants to Hire You Away"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So sometime in your career you will have the very flattering moment when someone you&#8217;ve worked for in the past wants to hire you away.\u00a0 If you already have a job, this becomes riskier\u00a0because you&#8217;re leaving to go somewhere else&#8230;so you want to be wise. A couple of things to keep in mind:<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>1. <strong>How do you feel about your current situation?<\/strong> Gut reaction? Is there opportunity? Do people treat you as valued? How do you feel about the work you&#8217;re doing? Do you trust your boss? You should have a pretty good idea since this is your current situation&#8230;you just have be careful you&#8217;ve got a realistic view.<\/p>\n<p>For me, who I work for and the type of work I do drives my satisfaction. How much I get paid and whether or not I&#8217;ve been promoted is more of a<em> negative influencer<\/em>: no one wants to feel like they&#8217;ve been taken advantage of.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re really unhappy, this might be the time to right the wrong&#8230;as long as you are seeing things clearly. Remember the frying pan and the fire!<\/p>\n<p>2. <strong>What do you know about the future role?<\/strong> This is your unknown&#8230;and probably your future boss&#8217;s unknown too if they are newly hired. You want to take your time on this: understand the problem that needs solving, figure out how you can help and in what role. Salary negotiations, promotion upside&#8230;don&#8217;t get swayed by the sales pitch. What you do know is the person trying to hire you&#8230;be honest whether or not you<em> liked working for them<\/em>.\u00a0 You know your skills&#8230;can you help the situation? Does this opportunity give you the ability to expand your resume meaningfully?\u00a0\u00a0 What is your boss worried about, now that he\/she has joined the firm?\u00a0 What are the warning flags?<\/p>\n<p>3.Talk to someone you <strong>completely trust and who knows you<\/strong>.\u00a0 This is typically not someone at work&#8230;they&#8217;re too biased.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The last thing you want is someone spilling that you are\/were looking. No one looks at the person the same way again. Ever.<\/p>\n<p>4. <strong>If you do decide to go, leave with grace<\/strong>.\u00a0 Be\u00a0professional and considerate. 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