{"id":1115,"date":"2015-05-15T23:21:35","date_gmt":"2015-05-15T23:21:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=1115"},"modified":"2015-05-17T00:44:57","modified_gmt":"2015-05-17T00:44:57","slug":"how-to-deal-with-office-politics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=1115","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal with Office Politics"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Someone asked me how to deal with office politics. Here are my lessons learned the hard way, because I am bad at it. I&#8217;ve never been one of those people who can gracefully mingle with the seniors and say the right thing.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>1. Judge every situation and case on the <strong>merits of the argument<\/strong>.\u00a0<em>Focus on\u00a0the facts<\/em>. Don&#8217;t be swayed on whether or not you like the person: you want to be an impartial judge. 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