{"id":1110,"date":"2015-05-12T03:06:40","date_gmt":"2015-05-12T03:06:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=1110"},"modified":"2015-05-12T03:06:40","modified_gmt":"2015-05-12T03:06:40","slug":"what-are-you-afraid-of","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylessonslearned.co\/?p=1110","title":{"rendered":"What Are You Afraid Of?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What&#8217;s the one thing you&#8217;re afraid of at work?<\/p>\n<p>For me, it used to be the <strong>fear of being wrong<\/strong>. I would overanalyze. I&#8217;d beat myself up for mistakes. I&#8217;d shy away from the tough questions.<\/p>\n<p>Not that I&#8217;ve grown to love being wrong, but I&#8217;ve learned to live with it. How?<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>A couple of things that helped me:<\/p>\n<p>1. The realization that in the grand scheme of things,\u00a0<em>the thing\u00a0I got wrong is\u00a0probably small<\/em>. 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